What are friendships?

To me, it is having a bond with someone.  This bond is very strong. It is like a chain that is made from the strongest metals on the Earth.  These chains are made out of trust, faith, hope, love, happiness and acceptence.  It all links togethers.  Sadly, the bonds can be easily broken.

There are rules to friendships too.  Yet many people don't follow them.  It doesn't matter what age any person is, the rules are all the same.

Rule 1) Telling secerts to each other.

This means that people know deep things about each other.  Like what the favorite colors are and food to that bad first date that someone had. 

Rule 2) Having fun in the good times.

People need to have fun for each in the good times.  If there is no fun, what is there to look foreward to?

Rule 3) Being there in the bad times.

It doesn't matter how many links there is to that chain of friendship, if some calls out to anoter during the bad times, the one in pain wants comfort.  During the bad times, the bonds can and will become stronger.  But note, the bad times can last a long while--longer than the good times will.  But if people are there for each during those tough times, the good time are only but more amazing.

Rule 4) Knowing that the rules to friendship

If people don't know these rules, than there is no point to friendship.  Humans love and hate other humans.  We crave their company yet we hate that we can't seem to figure each other out very well.  We all wish that we could have the superpower to read minds, because, heck, that would make so much easier a lot of the time!  But we can't.  And that really, really, really sucks.  However, we deal the best that we can. 

Sometimes it takes some people longer than others to finally realize that people hate and love one another.  It hurts when their whole world of innocene is shattered.  The softhearted can only but dream of others feeling like them.  Not many people can be the softhearted.  It is a burdern to be so.  Yet they strive to live on these bonds.  They work hard to make these bonds work.  They give up thier happiness for the happiness of others.  They die for others.  They live, breathe, and sleep for others.  They feel pain for others.  In all reality, the softhearted would rather feel the evils of the world tenfold than letting one person feel it once.

When the rules of friendship are not followed, these kind people get hurt.  They become bitter and spiteful.  They become hateful.  They become all the things that they fear.  For the softhearted, these bonds equal life. 

Have you taken somene's life?

Was your life taken?

Think about it.